Frequently asked questions from breastfeeding mothers: difficulties encountered, doubts and key moments in breastfeeding

I'm sure you've asked yourself at least one of these questions, and if not, I think they might be useful to help the mothers around you, or to prepare you for breastfeeding if you're pregnant.

Support for breastfeeding mothers remains a weak point in current policy, not only in France but in most countries around the world. This is evident in the statistics related to breastfeeding.

So we're going to cover 10 common questions that are often asked in breastfeeding forums.

1 “My baby is breastfeeding all the time, is this normal ?”

It is completely normal for newborns to need to breastfeed frequently, as this stimulates breast milk production.

Just make sure your baby is latching on correctly and emptying each breast effectively to promote good milk production, so please watch for certain signs and follow these steps:

1. Positioning: Make sure the baby is positioned correctly when breastfeeding, with their mouth at the level of the nipple and areola.
2. Mouth Opening: Wait until the baby's mouth is wide open before offering the breast. This will allow the baby to take more of the areola into their mouth.
3. Sucking Motions: Observe your baby's sucking motions to ensure they are making steady, deep strokes.
4. Swallowing sounds: Listen for your baby's swallowing sounds while breastfeeding, which indicate that they are drinking properly.
5. Comfort: Make sure the baby is comfortable while breastfeeding, without pain or discomfort, which could indicate a poor latch.
6. Consult a healthcare professional: If you have any concerns about your baby's latching, consult a healthcare professional, such as a lactation consultant or midwife, who can offer tailored advice and recommendations. This will not only ensure proper nutrition for your little one, but also foster a valuable bond between the two of you.

2 “My baby is not gaining enough weight, what can I do ?”

Are you wondering about your baby's weight? It's important to find the right solutions to help them grow well.

It is crucial to seek the advice of a healthcare professional in order to receive appropriate advice. To do this, do not hesitate to contact a lactation consultant , who will be able to support you at every stage of your breastfeeding journey.

Lactation consultants are often up-to-date, know the tricks to overcome any difficulties you may encounter, and can give you the best advice to fully enjoy this wonderful breastfeeding adventure.

Also make sure you have checked the steps in the previous question .

"Breastfeeding creates a unique bond between mother and child, promoting a secure attachment and contributing to better mental and emotional health in the child." - Dr. Nils Bergman, pediatrician and child development expert

3 “My baby always seems hungry after feedings, what should I do?”

First, check that your baby is correctly positioned and breastfeeding effectively.

It's also possible that your baby is growing and needs more milk than you're currently producing. In this case, try to boost your milk supply by increasing the frequency and duration of feedings , getting enough rest, staying hydrated, and eating a balanced diet.

You can also use the FinConfort breast pump to stimulate the breast when baby is sleeping.

4 “I have painful cracks, how can I treat them so I can continue breastfeeding?”

Try different breastfeeding positions to find the one that is most comfortable for you and your baby.

Apply lanolin or breast milk to the cracks to help them heal faster. Avoid using creams or lotions containing irritating ingredients.

If cracked nipples persist despite these measures, consult a lactation consultant or healthcare professional for further advice and appropriate care.

5 “My baby is having trouble latching on, what should I do ?”

Make sure you are in a quiet place without distractions so your baby can focus on feeding (especially if they are close to 3 months).

Adopt a comfortable position and use pillows to support your back and arms, which will make it easier to latch on.

If your baby continues to have difficulty latching, don't hesitate to consult a lactation consultant or breastfeeding healthcare professional. They can guide you on proper positioning and attachment techniques, as well as any potential sucking or tongue-tie issues that could be interfering with breastfeeding.

6 “Should I supplement with formula if my milk supply is low ?”

First, it's important to understand that breast milk production is a complex process that can vary from woman to woman. It's normal for some mothers to experience difficulties with milk production, but this doesn't necessarily mean they need to supplement with formula.

It is essential to consult a healthcare professional specializing in lactation to assess the situation and receive personalized advice.

In some cases, it may be necessary to supplement with formula temporarily to meet your baby's nutritional needs. However, it is essential to continue to stimulate milk production by encouraging frequent and effective feedings, getting enough rest, staying hydrated, and eating a balanced diet.

Support from a lactation consultant can also be beneficial in finding suitable solutions and maximizing breast milk production.

7 “My baby often wakes up at night to feed, is this normal ?”

Yes, it is completely normal for your baby to wake up often at night to feed, as breast milk is easier to digest and is quickly absorbed by his little stomach.

But above all , it also helps to maintain good milk production and strengthen the emotional bond between mother and baby.

Nighttime feedings can also help ensure your baby's optimal growth and development, as it's during the night that your milk contains higher levels of certain beneficial hormones.

It's therefore important to listen to your baby's needs and not hesitate to respond to their feeding requests, even at night. Stay strong, dear mother watching over you in the shadows, because every little moment spent together strengthens the magical bond that unites you. You are a source of life, comfort, and support!

8 “I feel strong social pressure to wean my baby, what should I do ?”

First of all, I want to reassure you that you are a wonderful mother and that you are making the best decision for your baby. It is completely normal to feel social pressure, but it is important to remember that you know your baby better than anyone. If breastfeeding is working well for you and your child, then there is no reason to give in to external pressure .

I understand that social pressure can be difficult to cope with, but it's essential to surround yourself with positive support and remember that breastfeeding is a personal and intimate choice. Stay strong and trust your mom's instincts; you know what's best for your baby!

It may also be helpful to learn more about the benefits of breastfeeding and seek support from specialized organizations such as lactation consultants or breastfeeding support groups.

Ultimately, the important thing is to make an informed decision and listen to your maternal instinct!

9 “My baby refuses to breastfeed, what should I do ?”

This is a very difficult situation to go through, so it is important to remember that every baby is unique and has their own preferences.

In this case, I recommend trying different breastfeeding positions to see if it can help your baby feel more comfortable. Sometimes, a simple change in posture can make all the difference.

In addition, it's also important to make sure your baby isn't having difficulty latching on due to a sucking problem. It's essential to remain patient and remember that breastfeeding is a learning process for both of you.

10 “I feel guilty about not breastfeeding as well as I would like, what should I do ?”

First of all, let me reassure you that it's completely normal to feel guilty when you're having trouble breastfeeding. Know that you're not alone in this situation, and that many mothers are going through the same challenges.

It's important to remember that breastfeeding isn't always easy, and every mother and baby have their own unique journey. Don't be too hard on yourself and don't hesitate to ask for help and support.

Breastfeeding isn't just about success or failure, it's about the love and connection between you and your baby. You're a great mom! And your baby feels all the love you give, no matter how you choose to feed.

To all breastfeeding mothers facing challenges, doubts, and key breastfeeding moments, remember that you are doing your best!

Your dedication and unconditional love for your child are an inspiration to us all. Remember that every little helps and that you are doing an incredible job. Stay strong, trust yourself, and don't hesitate to ask for help if you need it.

Please feel free to share your experience by commenting below. Your advice and encouragement could help other mothers going through similar times.

Thank you for your support and sharing.